I am really getting tired of people thinking that because I don't necessarily say no , or actually react to their bullshit that I am okay with it .
No matter how often a person says that their behavior will change, the fact that they are making that particular statement at all is a clear indicator that the behavior in question has not only remained constant , but more to the point is not capeable of any change.
Read that twice..it is long but it will make sense.
If you need to keep saying it won't happen again and it does..you are a liar and the fact that you keep apologizing means that you have no concept of consequences or responsibility or decent behavior towards another human being at all.
It is also a real form of emotional abuse.
Aunty Pol who finds it easier to care less each and every day.