Go read this.
Go to www.atheistgranny.blogspot.com and look for the mean girls post dated today, 8/24.
This hit home for a lot of reasons.
I always thought of my self as the friend..aka the pleaser.
I was wrong in so many ways .
More often than I care to admit, I am the " Torn Bystander."
Finally, I had the clarity to say good bye to all of it and all of them .
My regret is that I let myself fall into that trap in the first place.
This dynamic is not supportive and they are NOT your Sistah's.
If you find yourself in this place, own it..and remove yourself.
You will sleep better from then on.